THIS IS HOW CUSTOMER RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUILT

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When it comes to building long term relationships with customers, it’s very similar to building long term friendships in kindergarten children are always encouraged to make new friends by talking with others, inviting them over to the house to play, being nice and kind to them.

A lot of times they’ll hear these words to have a friend, you have to be a friend. So in many business situations, customers a lot of times will become more than just your customers.

Would you guys agree with that? they become friends, not necessarily the kind that you’re going to invite over to the bar mitzvah or to ramadan or to non business gatherings, but people that you truly care about and they also care about you.

There is a feature in our local area newspaper where readers are invited to review their favorite non franchise restaurants. I love this because I get to go out and try different things every single month.

That is not a chain type of restaurant. now, the articles to me are absolutely a wonderful publicity for the restaurants. one of the key elements that I see over and over that’s repeated is that the patrons know the names of the owners, the hosts and the servers.

Many of the restaurant workers actually know something about them as well. they know if the guests prefer coffee if they like tea with breakfast, they even might remember their favorite meal asking, hey, do you want the usual black coffee?

Oh my GOD! I LOVE COFFEE!! Sorry, got side tracked 😂 ok listen to me, put yourself in the seats of those guests for a moment. How would it make you feel if you had a particular favorite automatically placed before you without having to explain your preferences?

It would make you feel unbelievable. It would make you feel at home or as if you’re at the home of a very good friend or someone who knows you so well and wants you to have what you want, they want you to be happy.

And that type of response is the ideal when it comes to serving up your customers needs and it can really be created no matter what your product or your service is. my friends.

You might think that you’re in the business of selling automotive services, home, remodeling, repairs, printing services, financial services, you might be a tutor, you might be into signs, you might be an entrepreneur, a baker or a candlestick maker, but you’re not.

Even if your products are sold, only two other businesses, the business doesn’t make the buying decision. a person does listen to me. you’re in the people business and learning to make people feel important and cared about is going to help you make both the initial sale and long term sales.

Over the course of time, no matter what your business is, every customer should always receive your best care during the sales process and after that’s important.

So during the initial sale, get them talking and take good notes, enter the information into your customer database. i’ve got a colleague of mine who has a long list of details that he requires his sales people to gather about their customers over a certain time period.

And you know what I really like that because it includes not just information that’s required to do business, but a few personal details like birthdays, whether or not they’re married, what their children’s names are, whether or not they have animals or pets. The information is then used to make contacts and to really start conversations with customers after the initial sale.

That’s pretty cool. I say all that to say this. People like to do business with people who are just like them. People who demonstrate that they care about them beyond making the sale and who keep them in mind when something new that might be of interest to them actually comes up and arises.

That type of treatment makes them feel super important. They come to rely on businesses and sales people that they know they can trust to have their needs and interests at heart. I really hope you got some value out of this training.

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Bye! everybody peace now, back to coffee. mhm. oh man! living the mug life, you know what I mean?

Why you want to live the thug life when you can live the mug life, you know what i’m saying bro? yeah.

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💛 THE STRATEGIC ADVANTAGE OF BEING A GOOD PERSON

Building relationships is a strategic advantage.

If you give value to someone else first, you have a strategic advantage.

It’s as simple as that. I truly believe that when I go and make time to do a keynote or free masterclass (even though my wife and kids think it’s stupid and I should be charging for it), that I then have leverage with that business owner or leader.

It’s a funny statement, and I know it feels kind of dark.

I mean I am so happy that my generosity is viewed in a nice way and contributes to me having a nice reputation, but I’ve said it before: I’m not Mahatma Gandhi.

I just think it’s a smart thing to do. I’m extremely good at building emotional capital.

Now do I cash-in on that leverage?

Sometimes. I actually prefer not to.

I’m very “Old-school, East African”, so I don’t like to ask for favors.

I actually hate that I have a coffee mug, t-shirt and hoodie coming out this winter, and I have to use this leverage to go in for the sale.

I ENJOY THE TIMES WHEN I’M NOT ASKING FOR ANYTHING, BECAUSE THEN I’M TOTALLY SELF-SUFFICIENT.

That brings me to the other half of the equation, which I think is huge, and that is having zero expectation for others.

The reason that I’m able to give so easily and create that leverage is that I never assume that someone will reciprocate and come through for me.

Both of those sides have to be in play in order for this system to work.

If things get out of balance, one way or another, someone’s going to end up feeling bad.

It’s emotional. It’s taxing.

My wife for example, is just the greatest woman on earth, but boy does she ever get let down by people.

I’m just not like that, okay maybe I used to be and that allows me to play through and keep giving.

What I love best about this is that it allows me to be extremely happy 99.99% of the time.

Lack of expectation and generosity are two very lucky traits I have, and they’re something that I implore more new Managers and future leaders to focus on.

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HOW TO KNOW IF YOU HAVE ENTREPRENEURIAL DNA 🧬


I recently received a Homer Award for ENTREPRENEURIAL SPIRIT, it was one of several I have received the past 4 years working as a Master Trainer for The Home Depot University.

Someone who admires me recently asked me if whether entrepreneurship is a case of nature or nurture. I really look at it like a skill thing like singing or basketball. Some people were born with it and had circumstances where they never even had the chance to realize their skill. I’m sure there are hundreds of people around the country who could play for the NBA right now but maybe they were never exposed to it in high school or maybe their interests lay elsewhere when they were younger.

On the flip-side, basketball may have been a “way out” for some people and they worked their way up to a high skill set through sheer determination. but I always think that at the end of the day it’s about betting on your strengths, so finding a way to figure out what you’re good at and then going all in on it is extremely important. Whether that’s being an entrepreneur, or an accountant or a teacher, it’s all based around skill sets.

So do I think there are outlier situations in which you can be forced into something that you become great at? Sure. But do I think that for the most part it’s a DNA thing? Yes, I really do.

I had no choice in the matter. I HAD to knock on doors and sell or I didn’t eat. It was the only thing I thought about. When everybody went outside to play and go bowling or to Mickey Rats on the beach in Buffalo, I just had to stand on the side of the street, make flyers and put them out door-to-door, bang phones, and sell stuff all day. Now I’m an extreme version of it, but there are a lot of places in between, and I think most of them are predicated on skill and DNA.

So now, you’re probably asking, “how do I know if that’s me? If I hate my job and want to get out and explore my options, how do I know if entrepreneurship is in my DNA?”

I’d say that it’s like anything else. You don’t know if you’re going to be good at something until you do it. Now up and quitting your job isn’t practical. I know that people have lots of variables in their lives like kids and mortgages that don’t allow them to flip on a dime, but that’s why, in my blog I wrote about the idea of 7pm-2am. Now if you really hate your job, that is a powerful thing. Hate is a tremendous motivator. Hate is worth working from 7 at night to 2 in the morning. And what’s great about the time we live in is that 20 years ago, you couldn’t have done that, but with the internet, 7pm-2am is just as useful as any other time of the day.

If you want to know whether you’ve got that entrepreneurial spirit in your blood, here is what you do: You cut out watching your favorite sitcoms at night, you cut out playing more call of duty, you cut out going out for beers, you cut out being on the bowling or golf team, you pick a dream and you go after it.

And if you prefer all that downtime over the upside of building your own business? I honestly think that’s great! That’s totally fine, but you’re not allowed to complain about how much you hate your job, just like I am not allowed to complain about my lack of free time or sleep.

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